I want to do this with my hijab. I keep thinking of my old days and how I used to flourish and just ooze confidence when people looked twice at me. Now I realize that it’s not fair to place my whole worth onto how I look. There is more to me than what I wear, how I do my makeup and how physically fit I am, however those things are important to me so I won’t give them up. What I’m saying is that I need to learn to channel myself in a non sexual way meaning that I don’t have to look sexy to feel confident. Does this make any sense? I want to be all that I can be with my hijab. I want love and I’ll be okay.